by Dr. Margaret Rogers Van Coops
Some of you may know that I am a Medium and a Healer and also a mother and grandmother. There is no greater pain than losing your child to death or adoption owing to terrible circumstances occuring in one's life. It is in fact so amazing that so many families made it here and even more terrible how badly they have been treated. Whatever happened to The American Dream? We buried it with fear!
Here we are with hundreds of tiny small children who have survived the long and terrible journey of making it to the USA to be torn from their familes. So many tiny babies have been taken and no one knows where they are. So, I asked The Oneness where most have ended up and this is what I was given. "It is in one sense so terrible, and yet in another, maybe so good for the baby, but never for the mother who will never find her child."
I saw that all over this country are wishful parents who so want a child that they will go to any length to adopt and unfortunately, there are many ruthless people who want to make money from this dilemma. Since our systems take so long to work through, and a child is needed to be placed quickly, it has become easier for people with money to buy a child through unqualified business personnel who will, for a price, find a child and sell it to them with forged documents stating the child was born to a minor etc. and the history is closed to protect the mother. I was meditating and I saw that the El Salvadorian babies have been placed in these kinds of homes with parents who will love them and rear them as their own. The problem is that there are no records beyond a registered birth certificate in some state somewhere, and as I saw it, no way to find them without a great deal of exposure and investigations, especially since there was no record of their orginal birthday and place or country.
The positive side for the child, is that they now have a chance to grow up with love and schooling and all the things that his/her real parents cannot provide. So in some ways this is a blessing for the children, but devastation for the families who have all been sent home. As I watched this scene and listened to my guides their comforting words were, "Remember that some of us come through very bad circumstances to be saved and they will grow to be children of the future who will save us from harm, wars and the like in the distant future. Our karmic ways of arriving here on Earth are often terrible, but can turn out to be the most wonderful thing that could possibly happen". I got chills when I wrote this last part.
So my message to parents who have lost their babies, pray for a light to heal your heart and love to surround your child throughout their lives. For those older children, do not give up hope. They know their names, they speak their languages and they can find you sometime in the future when our policies change and I am told that it will be by Oct. next year. So keep hoping and looking. And to all women of America, you are a mother, an aunt and a grandmother. Do your bit to help change the president's ways and means. Time is on our side and we can win if we are dedicated to making this world a better place for all nations to share, love and honor all faiths and then work in harmony to heal Mother Earth so that no one ever starves again.
To any couples who have adopted a child quietly. Look into your heart, feel this child and truly ask yourself if you have done the right thing! If you have a sense that all is well, then promise that no matter what lies ahead, this child will always receive love, kindness and support to make them truly aware of their history and their roots when they are older. Reunions are often made possible, if you provide them with their baby photos when they are older so that they know what to do in this world for the betterment of life for all. Even find their original parents, or what has happened to them when they become of age. The Oneness assures me that this will come to pass for some.